Cecile Jarvis
Cecile Jarvis passed away peacefully on August 28, 2024 at the Alice Center in Malone, N.Y. where she had been residing over the last few years.
She was born Cecile Agnes LaLumiere on April 13, 1929 in Tupper Lake, to proud parents Damien Alexander LaLumiere and Eugenie Marie Nadon LaLumiere.
Cecile attended both elementary and high school in Tupper Lake as well as local community college. She worked in a variety of capacities throughout her life, both here and in New York City. She was involved with religious education and assisted the Tupper Lake School system.
During her life, Cecile provided transcription and translation services as she was fluent in French. She often told stories of her role as "Mother Goose" at Santa's workshop. Later in life, Cecile worked as a volunteer with Mercy Care for the Adirondacks.
Cecile was an avid reader and fostered her love of writing throughout her involvement with the Tupper Lake Writer's Group for many years. She loved nature and saw beauty in the small things that many of us take for granted. These things were often the subject of her many poems. Cecile loved God and embraced her Catholic faith here at St. Alphonsus and Holy Name of Jesus Parish throughout her life.
Cecile married her beloved husband Norman Jarvis on October 28, 1953 and they made their home here in Tupper Lake. Cecile was predeceased by her loving husband Norman, who died in 2006; parents Damien and Eugenie LaLumiere, an older sister Marguerite who blessed this world for 11 months, Tupper Lake cousin Fluerette Rolley, brothers-in-law Howard Jarvis and Lester (Kay) Jarvis, sister-in-law Betty Jarvis, niece Jane Carter and great-niece Hannah Baker.
Cecile leaves behind sisters-in-law Shirley Foltz of Kennesaw, Georgia, Phyllis Jarvis of New Hartford, NY, Yulah Jarvis of Clark Mills, NY, brother-in-law Marshall Jarvis and his wife Mary of Conway, S.C., as well as many nieces and nephews.
Cecile also leaves behind family in Canada. She shared many stories of visits to Cornwall as a child and young woman. Adventures on her uncle's farm with cousins such as Bea Nadon and others were spoken of often. She will be dearly missed by her niece, Lisa Jones and her husband Dennis.
Calling hours will be from 10 a.m. to 11 a.m. at St. Alphonsus. Holy Name of Jesus Church on Wednesday, September 4, 2024 with a Funeral Mass to follow at 11a.m.
Many thanks to the staff at the Alice Center in Malone for their care and kindness. Donations in Cecile's memory can be made directly to St. Alphonsus and Holy Name of Jesus Parish, the Goff Nelson Memorial Library or the Alice Center in Malone, N.Y.
Funeral Mass for Donald W. Donah
A funeral mass for Donald W. Donah will be held on Wednesday, September 11, 2024, at 11a.m. at the St. Alphonsus Church in Tupper Lake. Afterwards, there will be a burial ceremony for both Don and Jean Anne at the cemetery. A celebration of a life will follow from 1p.m .to 5p.m. at P-2's Irish Pub in the Junction.
Death Notice: Apolinario Torno
Apolinario Torno, age 83, passed away on Monday, August 26, 2024 at his home in Tupper Lake. A full obituary will follow.
Beulah Dechene, 86
Beulah A. Dechene, 86, of Tupper Lake, passed away peacefully on Saturday morning, August 17, 2024, at the Tupper Lake Rehabilitation Center, surrounded by the love of her family. Graveside services will be held at 3p.m. at St. Alphonsus Cemetery on Saturday, September 14, 2024, with Pastor David Boyea officiating.
Arrangements are under the care and direction of Frary Funeral Home.
Beulah is survived by her devoted husband, Dennis Dechene; her cherished daughters, Heidi (Michael) Cheney and Brenda (Mark) Carter; step-children, William (Rachel) Dechene and Katie (Joel) Locke; along with many adored grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and great-great-grandchildren who brought joy to her life and was affectionately known as “Moomaw.”
She is predeceased by her parents, Wilfred and Agnes (Disotell) Montion, three sons, Theodore (Teddy), Michael, and Martin Bourbeau, her siblings, Rita LaFrance, Maurice Montion, and Mary Jane Gehrlein; and her husband, James Bourbeau and husband, Steven Konkoski.
Born on July 3, 1938, in Tupper Lake, Beulah was a bright and compassionate soul who touched the lives of many. A proud graduate of Tupper Lake Central School, Class of 1956, Beulah devoted her early years to nurturing her family and home. Her entrepreneurial spirit led her to establish S and B Crafts, a beloved local business where she crafted beautiful ceramic figurines and decorative pieces, a testament to her creative flair and dedication.
Beulah’s talents extended beyond ceramics. She was a passionate painter, an avid crafter, a skilled guitarist and published author titled “Death is Never Convenient.” Her artistic endeavors brought beauty and joy to those around her. Her warmth, kindness, and vibrant spirit will be deeply missed but fondly remembered by all who knew her.
Donations in lieu of flowers, may be made in her memory to the Tupper Lake Fire Department, 21 Santa Clara Ave, PO Box 849, Tupper Lake, NY 12986 and the National Breast Cancer Foundation, 7460 Warren Parkway, Suite 150, Frisco, TX 75034.
Condolences may be made online at www.fraryfuneralhome.com.
Alan E. Payment, 81
Alan Everard Payment, 81, passed away on Wednesday, August 21, 2024 with his devoted wife, Sami by his side in Cottage Grove, Oregon.
The eldest of the three sons of William and Irene Robinson Payment, Alan was born in the family home on Pine Street in the Tupper Lake Junction on July 18, 1943.
He spent his early schooling at the Faust Elementary School and then rode the bus to the Tupper Lake High School, completing his basic education there with his graduation in 1961. During the summers, he worked with Duke Delair and the Little League baseball program.
Alan began his college work at SUNY Albany and later transferred to SUNY Potsdam. There he received his BA in Elementary Education in 1966. Alan began teaching in the Edwards Elementary School.
While still in college he and Margaret “Peggy” Kirkbride were married in Oneonta where she attended college.
He was always fascinated by the legal system and the lawyers’ role in it. So after being a teacher for three years, Alan and his wife Peggy moved to San Diego, California. There he enrolled in law school and became an attorney.
Alan and Peggy lived in San Diego for many years enjoying what the city had to offer. Always a dedicated Dodger fan, Alan was delighted to be only two hours from Dodger Stadium. One of his favorite pastimes was training for marathon running, and during his time in California, he reached his goal of participating in the New York City marathon.
When he retired from the law, he began searching for a small town on the West Coast that reminded him of his roots in Tupper Lake. Cottage Grove, Oregon filled that bill. Bag and baggage, he returned to small town life. There he met and married his second wife, Virginia Louise “Sami” Payment. The region's long, wet summers, made it easy for him to cultivate a garden of prize winning tomatoes and miniature fruit trees.
Alan leaves two brothers, Barry Payment of Tupper Lake and Florida and Dale Payment of New Mexico, two sisters, Carol Payment Poole of Saranac Lake and Cindy Obert of Thompson, CT. Also surviving Alan are nieces and nephews, Calli Shelton, Sherry Fieroh, Joseph Poole, Lesley Sojda and Amy Banker who will always remember the role his personal warmth and sense of humor played in their lives.
Lorraine P. LaValley
Lorraine P. LaValley, of 5 Becky Ave., Tupper Lake, passed away on Wednesday, August 14, 2024 at her home surrounded by her loving family.
Lorraine was born in Keeseville, N.Y. on April 8, 1931, the daughter of Raymond and Gertrude Dean Pray. Lorraine married Donald B. LaValley August 11, 1951. Don predeceased her on December 20, 1998.
Known as Oma to her family, Lorraine had many interests - with the most important being time with her family. When her children were younger, she was very involved in a variety of organizations to make sure her children developed a strong sense of community.
A true entrepreneur, she co-founded the original Market Place; owned and operated the Sunset Park Motel; owned and operated LaValley's Woodshed; and was a part of the family real estate business, LaValley Real Estate.
Lorraine loved to travel and visited many different places both in the US and abroad. She enjoyed talking about her upbringing on the family farm and how it was a good day when she could ride her horse to school. Her years on the farm taught her the best way to grow and maintain vegetables, flowers and other plants. And, growing up in a family of all boys, she learned quickly to develop a strong personality with a very big heart.
She is survived by her three children, Donna (Tom) Sloan, James (Laura) LaValley, Susan (Mark) Moeller; six grandchildren; six great-grandchildren; and several nieces and nephews. She predeceased by her husband; her parents; and her six brothers, Wayne, Vernon, William, Clifford, Raymond, and Ronald.
Per Lorraine’s wishes there will be no public calling hours.
A Mass of Christian Burial to celebrate her life was held on Monday, August 19, 2024 at 11a.m. at St. Alphonsus Church with burial to follow at St. Alphonsus Cemetery.
Donations in lieu of flowers may be made to Homeward Bound Adirondacks, 24 Depot St, Saranac Lake, NY 12983 or the Tupper Lake Rescue Squad, 169 Main St, Tupper Lake, NY 12986.
Constance “Connie” Denis, 80
A Funeral Mass for Constance “Connie” Denis, age 80, of Tupper Lake, will be held on Saturday, August 24, 2024 at 12 noon at St. Alphonsus Church with Rev. James Teti officiating. Burial will take place following the Mass at St. Alphonsus Cemetery. Mrs. Denis passed away on Sunday night, August 11, 2024 at Adirondack Medical Center surrounded by her loving husband, son and extended daycare family.
She is survived by her husband of 62 years, Charles “Chuck” Denis; her son, Gary Denis and his wife Sharon, of Lusby, MD; her brother-in-laws, Mike Denis and his wife Kathy, of Melbourne, FL and Jay Denis and his wife Karen, of Chelsea, MA; her adopted daycare children, Rachel, Nathan, Rebecca, Katie, and Roger; her furry grandchildren; and several nieces, nephews, and cousins. She is predeceased by her parents and sister-in-law, Sally Clement.
Connie was born on December 9, 1943, in Tupper Lake, the daughter of the late Buck and Myrtle Booking. She graduated from Tupper Lake Central School in 1960.
She married Chuck Denis on September 23, 1961 at St. Alphonsus Church. Connie ran a child daycare from her home in Tupper Lake and was one of the first licensed daycare providers in Franklin county. Through her years of childcare, she touched many lives of those in the community.
Connie lived for her grandchildren, finding her greatest joy in being a part of their lives. Her role as a grandmother extended beyond her own family becoming an “adopted” grandmother to many.
Curtis D. Parent
Curtis D. Parent went to his final resting place with the Lord on August 10, 2024. Curtis was on a planned fishing trip in Alamosa, CO with his good friend David Martinez when he passed.
He was born December 3, 1961 in Olathe, KS to Richard and Louise (Caron) Parent.
He attended schools in Germany, Connecticut, Oklahoma, New Jersey, Kansas, New York and California, graduating from Jakarta International School in Jakarta, Indonesia. He was an honor student excelling in academics and athletics. He went on to graduate from the U.S. Military Academy Preparatory School, Fort Monmouth, NJ, and attended the U.S Military Academy at West Point, NY. He served in the U.S. Army and was honorably discharged in May 1980.
Curtis earned his bachelor of science degree in Engineering from Texas A & M University and subsequently a Masters Degree in Engineering from Texas Tech University. He was employed by E-Systems, Garland, TX, Raytheon Corp and L3 Corp where he retired as Director of Business Development, Greenville, TX. He retired in 2018 and relocated to Indialantic, FL where he resided at the time of his death.
Curtis was an active member in the Rockwall - Heath community, coaching girls soccer, softball, and basketball, and YMCA father-daughter organizations.
Curtis was a loving father, son and brother and friend to many. In his retirement he enjoyed spending time with his friend and companion Regi Miller, traveling, hanging at the beach, fishing, golf and was an avid supporter of Texas A & M Aggie sports teams.
He is survived by his parents, Richard and Louise Parent, a brother Devin Parent, daughters - Devanne Parent, Paige Parent and Brooke Parent, and his former wife and mother of his children, Cyndi Parent.
Curtis was a former communicant of Our Lady of the Lake Catholic Church in Rockwall.
Dr. Richard J. DiStefano
Dr. Richard J. DiStefano passed away August 19th, 2024, at Crouse Hospital following a tragic accident during a triathlon in Cazenovia, N.Y.
He was the youngest of three sons born to Guido and Mary DiStefano, of Tupper Lake.
He was salutatorian of his Tupper High class of 1976, and earned All Northern Honors in football and baseball, enjoying both team sports as well as ice hockey.
Rick graduated from Yale University with a bachelor of science degree in chemical engineering in 1980 and afterwards worked with International Paper.
He then graduated from SUNY Upstate Medical University in 1989 and finished his orthopedic surgical training in 1995. He worked as a spine surgeon for Syracuse Orthopedic Specialists, having privileges at many local hospitals, and dutifully serving the people of Central New York. First and foremost, he was an amazingly loving and devoted husband, father, uncle, and friend.
Dr. DiStefano is survived by his wife Sheryl, daughter Kathryn, both of Jamesville, N.Y.; sons David (Libby) of Denver, CO; Daniel of Boston, MA; brother James (Anne) of Dewitt, N.Y.; nephews James Jr. (Joanna) and nieces Antonia and Olivia of Oakland, CA; Joseph (Courtney) and niece AnnaLeigh and nephew Luca of Marietta, GA; nephew Matthew of Mantauk Falls, NY; niece Lauren of Austin, TX; and multiple other DiStefano relatives.
The family extends their thanks to the medical staff at the triathlon and Crouse Hospital who did their best to help him. Donations can be made to CNY Triathlon Club, PO Box 434, Dewitt NY, 13214 in Dr. DiStefano's honor
Calling hours will be at Eaton and Tubbs Funeral Home in Fayetteville on Thursday, August 22, from 4p.m. to 8p.m.. A funeral mass will be at Holy Cross Church in Dewitt on Friday, August 23, followed by a burial ceremony at St. Mary's Cemetery.
Timothy Charles Roscoe
Timothy “Turkey” Charles Roscoe, of Piercefield NY, passed away on August 12, 2024.
Tim was born in Tupper Lake to Patricia (Sabre) and Robert Roscoe on September 23rd 1958.
Tim attended elementary school in Piercefield and then in Tupper Lake. He graduated from Tupper Lake High School in 1977. In high school Tim played football and ran on the track team. After graduation, in 1979, Tim joined the United States Marine Corps with his life time best friend Steve Cheney. Tim’s served as a sergeant before being discharged in 1983.
Tim spent 24 years in Nashville, Tennessee before moving back to New York where he lived for the last two years of his life.
Tim is preceded in death by his mother Patricia Roscoe, and father Robert Roscoe. Tim is survived by his daughter April Roscoe of Kingston N.Y., and his son Jeffrey Roscoe of Nashville, TN. He is also survived by his sisters Susan Roscoe of Kingston, NY, Penny Roscoe of Port Ewen, NY and Beverly (Roscoe) Goodrich and, brother in-law John Goodrich of Tupper Lake, as well as aunts, uncles, cousins and grandchildren Sophia Borden and Nero Bernard of Kingston and Chelsea Roscoe of Vermont.
There will be a “Peace Out Party” for Tim Saturday, October 5th, 2024. Details will be posted at a later date. A grave side service and burial will be held Sunday, October 6th, 2024 at the Gail Cemetery, Piercefield.
Kristina Breitmeyer, 70
Kristina M. Breitmeyer, 70, passed away after a two-year battle with cancer on Thursday, August 1, 2024, with loved ones by her side.
Born January 4, 1954, in Wyandotte, Michigan and was the daughter of Fritz and Arvilla (Wohlin) Vikstrom.
Kris graduated from Andover High School in Bloomfield Hills, Michigan in 1971. She then went on to graduate from University of Michigan for Natural Resources in 1974, and from Michigan State University for Horticulture in 1976.
On June 19, 1976, Kris married the love of her life and always her best friend, Bruce W. Breitmeyer in Gregory, Michigan. The two were happily married for 48 years.
Before opening her own flower shop, Kris worked at Neilsen’s Flower Shop and Greenhouse in Ann Arbor, Michigan, MSU Cooperative Extension Service in Lansing, Michigan and Mountainside Florist in Tupper Lake.
Since she had a green thumb and an eye for design, Kris went on to open Trillium Florist in Tupper Lake in May of 1985, which she owned and operated for 38 years, finally closing its doors in December of 2023.
She loved to see people happy with flowers whatever the occasion.
In Kris’s free time, she enjoyed landscaping and doing numerous improvement projects on her and her husband’s home and bird watching,
In addition to her parents, Kris was predeceased by her paternal grandparents, Febe and John Vikstrom of Michigan; maternal grandparents, Catherine and John Wohlin of Michigan; brothers, Erik A. Vikstrom, and Lars G. Vikstrom of Michigan; and nephew, Nils A. Vikstrom of Michigan.
Those left to cherish her memory are her husband, Bruce W. Breitmeyer of Glens Falls; sister, Kerstin I. Vikstrom of Mesa, Arizona; aunts and uncles, Dennis and Dorothy Vikstrom of Washington, Michigan, Robert and Sandy Vikstrom of Anderson, South Carolina, Mary Zurakowski of Richmond, Michigan, and Mary Ann Vikstrom of Utica, Michigan; in-laws, Douglas and Pamela Soules of Coos Bay, Oregon; nieces and nephews, Erik J. Vikstrom of White Lake, Michigan, Andrea (Tim) Johnson of Mesa, Arizona, Melissa Smallwood of Litchfield Park, Arizona, Paul Smallwood Jr. of Phoenix, Arizona, Kiel Smallwood of Gilbert, Arizona, Luke Soules of San Luis Obispo, California, and Rebecca Soules of Harrodsburg, Kentucky; and her pet, Sebastion.
Burial will be private and at the convenience of the family. A memorial gathering will be held at a future date.
In loving memory of Kristina, donations can be made to C.R. Wood Cancer Center of Glens Falls Hospital, Pruyn Pavilion, 100 Park Street, Glens Falls, NY 12801 or to a charity of your choice.
The family wishes to extend a sincere thank you to all the doctors, nurses, and staff at the C. R. Wood Cancer Center, Glens Falls Hospital, and the Albany Medical Center who cared for Kris for the last two years and her friends, Patty Farrell of Long Lake and Peggy Paiement of Sydney, N.Y. for their support and friendship over the years.
Condolences may be sent directly to Baker Funeral Home, 11 Lafayette St., Queensbury, NY 12804, or through www.bakerfuneralhome .com.
Joseph J. Smith Jr., 50
Joseph J. Smith, Jr., 50, of Tupper Lake, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday evening, July 31, 2024 at the University of Vermont Medical Center in Burlington, VT.
Joe was born on March 3, 1974 in Amsterdam and was the son of Joseph J. Smith, Sr. and the late Christina Walker Smith.
He spent most of his younger years in Galway and as a teenager, moved to Tupper Lake where he graduated from Tupper Lake High School in 1993.
Joe had a long career as a Corrections Officer, working in many New York State Prisons including Clinton County Correctional Facility in Dannemora and Adirondack Correctional Facility in Ray Brook.
He loved being outdoors, hunting, fishing, snowmobiling and riding his side-by-side. Joe was an excellent cook and enjoyed making meals for his family and friends. He also enjoyed snuggling with his pets, Blaze and Freddy. But none of this compares to the love and admiration he had for his daughter, Kearstan. He regularly bragged to anyone that would listen about how amazing she was, and often expressed that she was his true inspiration in life.
In addition to his mother, Joe is predeceased by his grandfather, Alfred Smith and his grandmother, Jane Smith.
He is survived by his beloved daughter, Kearstan Smith (Tyler Chiasson) of Tupper Lake; his father, Joseph J. Smith, Jr. of Galway; his step-mother, Tracey Smith of Galway; his love, Paula Canell, and her son Cole Canell of Greenfield Center; his brothers and sisters, Michael Smith (Lexie) of Middle Grove, Brandon Smith of Galway, Dustin Smith (Kayla) of Galway, Kaitlin Smith and Karli Smith also both of Galway; His grandchildren, Leah Strader, Matthew Chiasson, and Sadie Chiasson; and many nieces and nephews.
Calling hours were held on Sunday, August 4, 2024 at Armer Funeral Home, Inc., 39 East High Street, Ballston Spa.
Memorial donations may be made to the Correctional Peace Officers Foundation at www.cpof.org.
Arrangements are under the care of the Carleton Funeral Home, Inc., 68 Main Street in Hudson Falls. Online remembrances may be made by visiting www.carletonfuneralhome.net.
Dr. Nancy Weyl
Dr. Nancy Anne Kelly Weyl joined Eternity on Saturday, July 13, 2024. She passed quietly while at Albany Medical Center, Albany, N.Y.
Graveside service for Dr. Nancy Anne Kelly Weyl, age 71, will be held on Thursday, August 8, 2024 at 2 p.m. at Long Lake Cemetery, Long Lake.
A Celebration of Life gathering will be held at her home on 42 W. Buffalo Street, Churchville, N.Y. at 1p.m., Saturday, September 21, 2024. All are invited to come and share memories of her.
She is survived by her husband, John Albert Weyl, of Long Lake and Churchville; her step-daughter, Sarah Frampton and her husband Ryan Frampton, of Williamsville, N.Y.; sister, Sheila Herbert of Williamsburg, VA; sister-in-law, Susan Gregory and her husband Bruce Gregory, of Omaha, NE; mother-in-law, Deloris Kokot, of Surprise, AZ; her nieces, Kelly Herbert, Williamsburg, VA, Kim Herbert, Fairfax Station, VA, Elizabeth Gregory, Aurora, CO, and Christine Hanson, Omaha, NE; her nephew, Thomas Gregory, Fort Collins, CO; and seven great nieces and nephews.
She is predeceased by her parents; George Hugh Perkins and Mary Louise Champ; brother, George Perkins Jr.; brother-in-law, Paul Herbert; and her dogs Augie Doggie and Ghost Doggo.
Nancy was born on March 7, 1953, in Alexandria, VA, the daughter of George Hugh Perkins and Mary Louise Champ. She graduated from Arlington High School as class Valedictorian. In 1970 she attended the University of Chicago and received her Bachelor’s degree. In 1974 she went to Medical School at the University of Virginia and became a Board Certified Anesthesiologist. After spending a year at Harvard, she went to the University of Rochester and received her Master in Public Health degree. While teaching at the U of R, she also received her PhD in Political Science.
After serving as Assistant Medical Director of Blue Cross Blue Shield, she co-founded the medical analytical software company HealthChex, which was sold four years later to a Fortune 500 company.
She then married John Weyl, and co-founded the medical diagnostic software company, Logical Images Inc. (now VisualDX Inc.).
She and John retired in 2004 and designed and built a house on a small Pacific Island in the Rep. of Panama where they spent winters for 20 years.
Nancy loved to travel, and had visited England, Easter Island, Jamaica, Argentina, Chile, Panama, Israel, Europe, New Zealand, Alaska and all lower 48 United States. Nancy loved dogs, was an avid baseball fan, enjoyed all types of music, was an excellent card player, and had a very loud, infectious laugh.
She will be missed by the many people she touched over the course of her bountiful life. Donations in her memory can be made to The Human Society of Greater Rochester at Lollypop Farm, 99 Victor Rd., Fairport, N.Y., 14450.
Chris Jock, 59
Chris Alan Jock, aged 59, of Supply, N.C., passed away on July 11, 2024 with his loving family by his side.
Born in Oakland Naval Hospital, CA on January 8, 1965, Chris moved to his parents' hometown of Tupper Lake in 1971.
He was a beloved figure known for his huge smile and striking blue eyes. Chris was celebrated for his boundless kindness and dedication to helping others, always putting the needs of his family and friends first.
After graduating from Tupper Lake Central School in 1983, Chris honorably served in the U.S. Navy Seabees as a heavy equipment operator until his accident. Chris was honorably discharged in 1986, embodying the “Can Do” spirit typical of his unit. Post-military, he found joy in the simple pleasures of life, whether it was cheering on his favorite teams—the Raiders and the Yankees—or enjoying a thrilling NASCAR race.
Chris was a family man at heart, cherishing moments spent with his loved ones, especially his grandchildren, whose activities and achievements brought him immense pride.
He married Lisa Jedele in Shallotte, N.C. on May 5, 2007.
He is survived by his loving wife Lisa, his daughter Jessica of Texas; his mother, Gale (Shirley) of Tupper Lake; stepfather, Roger of Tupper Lake; siblings, Debi (John) Proper of Malone, John Jock (Sherry) Tupper Lake, and Rene (Matt) Jock of Massena; his loving grandchildren Penelope, Joey and Lilly of Texas and several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his father, John, in 2009.
In accordance with his wishes, there will be no services or burial. Chris hoped that any gestures of remembrance would benefit causes close to his heart. Contributions can be made to the Disabled Veterans Association, the Seabee Historical Foundation, or to a charity of one's choice, honoring his legacy of service and compassion.
Mary Reddan, 64
Mary Liberty Cook Reddan, 64, went home to be with Jesus on Friday, June 14, 2024, at 530 am at Alice Hyde Medical Center in Malone NY. She was surrounded by family and friends. Her identical twin sister Catherine Vaillancourt was there with her holding her hand as the angels came to bring her home to be with her heavenly Father.
Born on November 20, 1959, to Barbara A Semon and Patrick Joseph Reddan Jr. And was raised by Aida and Patrick Joesph Reddan Jr.
Mary enjoyed going out to local restaurants and spending time with her friends in her home. She also enjoyed traveling to see her twin Cathy in MO and her youngest son Stephen and his young daughters in Connecticut. She was eternally grateful for the chance to reconnect with those she loved so that her family could be restored and full.
Mary loved her family deeply and felt so blessed to have the chance to spend that time with them. Mary especially loved her cat companion Rascal who will be buried with Mary so they could spend all their heavenly days together. Mary found solace in her worship of her Lord and Savior.
She will be remembered by those who knew her best as a beautiful light that shone through even the darkest times in her life. Mary was without a doubt a strong, resilient, loyal and lovingly stubborn woman (lol) anyone who knew her, loved her for it.
She is survived by two sons, James Liberty and Navy Seals Veteran Stephen Cook-Buskirk. her three sisters, Anita Velasquez, Debra Feher and Catherine Vaillancourt, and a half brother, Alec (AJ) Warner. She is also survived by her grandchildren, nieces and nephews whom she loved deeply. She is also survived by an aunt Anna Obst and cousin Thomas Obst.
She was predeceased by her parents Barbara Semon, Patrick Reddan Jr., and Aida Reddan, a half brother, Air Force Veteran Samual Robert Warner, her daughter Jennifer Liberty and cousin Theresa Obst both in 2019.
Due to Cathy's medical issues Cathy and family will hold a celebration of Mary's life with former paster Richard Ducutt of New Hope Fellowship Church in Lake placid on June 14, 2025.
In lieu of flowers, please donate to the Lung Cancer Foundation of America. Cards can be mailed to Cathy Vaillancourt at 259 Lost Tree Drive Apt. 5 Branson MO 65616.
William N. Crary Sr., 70
William N. Crary, Sr., 70, passed away at the home he was so proud of, on July 16, 2024, after more than seven years of debilitating illnesses that he battled with courage and determination.
Bill was born on October 17,1953 to Norris and Joan Crary and grew up in Tupper Lake. He graduated from Tupper Lake High School in 1971 and was always proud of his participation in track, skiing, football and scouting.
Bill’s ill health did not define his life. He had a career in the wood industry that spanned more than 40 years. His career in the sawmill business started in Tupper Lake at Oval Wood Dish prior to moving to Potsdam in 1981 to work at Elliot Hardwoods which later became Potsdam Hardwoods, and he proudly became a co-owner and Vice President. When Potsdam Hardwoods closed in 2006 Bill undertook other projects and helped with the construction and maintenance at the Curran Renewable Pellet Plant in Massena before retiring in 2017 due to illness.
He was a talented builder, engineer, carpenter, mechanic and more, all rolled into one – if there was a way to do something Bill could figure it out. If you said he couldn’t do it, he would make sure he could. He also never said no to a request for help with a project and family and friends benefited from his expertise. Throughout his life he loved the outdoors and especially loved clearing and maintaining the woods surrounding his home on the Raquette River – he spent time outside every day until his health declined.
Bill is survived by his wife, Miki; children and grandchildren: Bill Jr., Hunter, and Holden Crary; Sean, Brandy, and Mason Crary; Kate Sheldon, Allen, Evan, and Zane Wagstaff; Eric, Jessica, Colten (Regan), Violet, Maddilynn, and Cordon Sheldon. He is also survived by his mother, Joan Crary of Tupper Lake; his brothers, Bart, and Jane Crary of Tupper Lake; Andy and Cindy Crary of Gabriels and his brother-in-law Dan and Leanne Perry of Sumner, WA. Bill is also survived by nieces, nephews, cousins, and many close friends who he considered family.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Seaway Parkinson’s Coalition (c/o R. Geiser, 11 Hillcrest Ave., Massena NY 13662) or Hospice of St. Lawrence Valley (PO Box 510, Potsdam, NY 13676) in his memory.
Family and friends are welcome to celebrate Bill’s life today- on Wednesday, July 24, 2024 at the Donaldson- Seymour Funeral Home, 4 Cedar St., Potsdam, NY from 1pm-4pm with a memorial service beginning at 4p.m. Flowers are respectfully declined due to allergies.
Arrangements are under the care of the Donaldson-Seymour Funeral Home in Potsdam, where memories and condolences may be shared online with the family at www.donaldsonseymour.com
Donald William Donah, 88
Donald W. Donah died Sunday, June 2, 2024, a week after his loving wife of 66 years, Jean A. Donah, passed away. He was 88 years old and died after a short illness.
Don and Jean lived at 2 Logan Lane in Tupper Lake, New York.
Don was born November 19, 1935, in Potsdam, New York, the son of Clarence and Lena Donah. He graduated from Potsdam High School in 1954, then joined the US Army and traveled to Germany for his tour of duty. He served honorably from November 23, 1954, until November 10th, 1956.
He then attended what was known as Canton Agricultural and Technical College from 1957 to 1959, completing his associate’s degree. It was at Canton ATC where he met the love of his life, Jean Anne Gionet. They were married on July 12, 1958 in St. Alphonsus Church and held their wedding celebration in the newly rebuilt Tupper Lake Golf Clubhouse.
Don and Jean started their first business venture called Don’s Men’s Shop at 127 Park Street, in the Union Block Building with the help of his father-in-law, Ernie Gionet. Two years later, he opened the Montgomery Ward Catalog Store, which he and his wife ran until 1985. Then they became a sales agency for J.C. Penney Co., operating the store together until 2003, when they sold the successful retail business after 43 years.
Don also taught business math and social studies courses at Tupper Lake High School after returning to Plattsburgh State University to complete his bachelor’s degree. After 18 years as a teacher, he retired from the Tupper Lake school system in 2003.
The adventurous couple then traveled out West to visit family, then to the Alaskan wilderness and parts unknown. Don was active in the Tupper Lake community, joining the Lion’s Club, sponsoring bowling teams, playing men’s basketball, league golf and baseball. He took pride in cooking and managing his beloved hunting camp, Buck-A-Year, where he served as president for 38 years. Both Don and Jean were founding members of the Wild Center and volunteered for several years, helping the science museum become one of the most popular in the nation.
Through the years, Don’s love for competitive sports resulted in his winning multiple trophies that lined the family’s basement. In 1972, he was the Tupper Lake Golf Club Champion. Don and Jean were formidable on the card table as well. In his later years, he taught friends and neighbors how to play the game of bridge. Don was an active member of the St. Alphonsus Parish. Don and Jean loved to travel and spent every spring in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, meeting up with good friends at their favorite spot, Land’s End.
Don is survived by his three sons: Michael and Rick, both of Tupper Lake, and James of Albany; a granddaughter, Nicole Donah of Albany, a grandson Luke Donah and his wife of Cedar Rapids, Iowa, and a great grandson named Beaux.
He is also survived by a sister, Catherine Pillar of Pottstown, PA. nephews Jeff and Jason Pillar, nieces Beth, Rebecca and Kristina of Pottstown PA., nephews Steve, John and Mike and niece Cindy of Bishop, CA; a sister-in-law Helen (Dennis) Schmidling of Sisters, Oregon; nieces Jodie McLeod of Colorado and Melissa Gionet of New Zealand. nieces Patti, Robin, and Angie Donah of Potsdam, N.Y. Also, stepbrothers-in-law Gary and Dave Barnett and partner Molly Sherwin of Albany.
In addition to his parents, he was pre-deceased by his brothers Robert (Sally) Donah and Clarence “Lee” Donah, a sister ,Dorothy (Charles) McArthur, and an infant brother Richard and sister Sue Carol Donah, his brother-in-law Daniel and wife Margaret Gionet of Keeseville, N.Y. and three of their children, Amy, Chris, and Mary; stepsister Dana and Stan Gilligan of Malone, N.Y., as well as his beloved nephew, Christopher R. Donah.
He was the primary caregiver for his devoted wife Jean Anne, who suffered dementia for over a decade.
Don was a humble, gentle, and generous man. A mass of Christian burial will be at Saint Alphonsus Church later this summer. There will be no calling hours per his wishes.
Contributions in his honor may be sent to the Tupper Lake Volunteer Ambulance and Emergency Squad, Inc., PO Box 901, Tupper Lake, N.Y .12986, who served the family well and allowed them to age in place.
Gloria Gravlin
Gloria Gravlin died peacefully in her home on Monday, July 1, 2024.
Born February 27, 1945, in Tarboro, NC, Gloria was the daughter of the late John Thomas and Lillian Ruth Dixon.
Gloria grew up in North Carolina, and later moved to Tupper Lake, where she put down roots and raised her family. During this time, she earned a living at Sunmount, DDSO, where she worked for 33 years, caring for the developmentally disabled.
When not at work, Gloria enjoyed traveling to see family with her significant other, Bill. She also enjoyed going to the casino with him, family, and friends. She was always up for a trip to “playground.”
Gloria is survived by her children: Stephen (Pam) Whitley, Scott (Melissa) Gravlin, and Cecilia (Bill) Sparks; her grandchildren include Vanessa (Brad) Methot, Meagan (Bryan) Lucey, *Paul Whitley*, Eric (McKenzie) Whitley, Christopher Hober, Katelin Armenta, Logan Phillips; step-grandchildren Keegan and Kollin Bombard, and Kamron and Kaiden Sarvis.
Gloria’s great-grandchildren include Alyssa, Riley, Hayden, Hunter, Chloe, Aubreigh, Abel, Franklin, Bryson, Ryker, Fiona, Maddox, Kemper, Skye, Maia, Oaklynn and Conner. She also leaves behind three loving stepsons: John (Andrea), Chris (Karla), and Dave (Whitney S) Williams and their extended families. In addition, Gloria leaves her baby brother, John (JT) Dixon, his wife and family, and several other nieces and nephews both in North Carolina and New York.
Gloria was pre-deceased by her parents, her three sisters (Doris, Faye, and Sue), her life partner, Bill Williams, a beloved grandson (Stephen Paul Whitley), and her dog, Mouser.
The family would like to express their heartfelt gratitude for the Tupper Lake Rescue Squad, their many service calls, compassionate and professional responses, and their dedication to all who live in this community. It takes a very special person to care for others and make them feel important. Calling hours were on Friday, July 12, 2024, at Frary Funeral Home, 10a.m. to 12p.m. A funeral service immediately followed. In lieu of flowers, please consider sending donations to either the Tupper Lake Rescue Squad or the Tri-Lakes Humane Society. https://www.trilakeshumanesociety.com
Jewett “Iggy” W. Tarbox, 88
Jewett “Iggy” W. Tarbox, age 88, formerly of Long Lake, passed away on July 13, 2024 at his home in Clifton Park surrounded by his loving family. Burial will take place in Gale Cemetery at the convenience of the family. Arrangements are under the care and direction of Frary Funeral Home, Tupper Lake.
He is survived by his daughters, Catherine Kalina, Rebecca Tarbox, Holly Brownell and her husband Adam; his grandchildren, Travis (Andrew) Kalina and Lacey (Cameron) Kalina, Eric and Kaylynn Tarbox, Zachary Jacobs and Tanner Brownell; great grandson, Joseph Tarbox; her sister-in-law, Clara and husband Phillip Allen; brother-in-law, Peter Cooper; and several nieces, nephews, great nieces, and great nephews.
He was predeceased by his parents; his wife, Mabel Tarbox; his daughter, Deborah; son-in-law, Nelson Kalina, granddaughter, Heather Cook, along with several siblings.
Iggy was born on August, 3, 1935, in Tupper Lake, the son of the late William and Lola Hamilton Tarbox. He graduated from Tupper Lake Central School in 1953. Iggy joined the U.S. Army where he served until his honorable discharge. After the military, he went to work for NYSEG as a meter reader in Long Lake.
A dedicated outdoorsman, Iggy found solace and excitement in hiking, often trekking through the serene paths of Mount Arab several times a week. His love for nature extended to his favorite pastimes of fishing and hunting, where he could be found with a rod in hand or quietly tracking game in the woods.
Donations in his memory can be made to CAPTAIN Community Human Services, 5 Municipal Plaza #3, Clifton Park, NY 12065 or at https://captaincares.org.
Jane LaVoy
Jane LaVoy was born December 24, 1946 in Syracuse, N.Y, the daughter of Henry R. and Edith Storch Sivers.
Jane grew up in Fulton, N.Y. and moved to Conklin, N.Y. for high school. Memorable summers were spent at the family’s cottage in the Thousand Islands Park on the St. Lawrence River.
Jane received her bachelor's degree in Child Development from Cornell University and was part of the Centennial class of 1968. Jane received her master's degree in Education from SUNY Cortland in 1969. She held teaching positions in the Binghamton area before relocating in 1973 to Tupper Lake, to teach at Sunmount Developmental Center.
She married Bruce LaVoy on July 31st 1976. When their two boys were young, she was a room mother and school site-based team representative, as well as PTA treasurer for many years. In addition, she was a 4-H leader for eight years and also was a founding mother of the TLC preschool, where she taught the four-year-old class for many eager students.
Afterward, she began her lengthy and enjoyable stint as a substitute teacher at Long Lake Central School. In 1991, she began teaching the New York State Boaters Safety course, at first just to Tupper Lakers and later, to other groups in the region.
In 1992 she joined Boy Scout Troop 23’s Scout Committee (following her oldest son and husband’s involvement) and was soon in charge of that as well as being the Advancement Chairwoman and head of the “Scouting for Food Drive”.
Jane and Bruce twice received the Adirondack Scout Council’s Bedford District Husband and Wife Award. Jane especially enjoyed helping first her son, Loren, and later, a number of other worthy scouts attain their Eagle Scout rank.
In 1998, she became a member of the Tupper Lake Women's Republican Club, acting as the group's treasurer, until the club disbanded. She also worked as an election inspector, a sociable job she enjoyed a lot.
Jane is survived by her husband Bruce, son Loren and daughter-in-law Karen of College Park, MD and their two sons Logan and Kaylon. She is also survived by son Todd and wife Christina of Portsmouth, VA, and their twins - Annika and Pfeiffer, a sister-in-law Arlene Cole Sivers of Owego, N.Y., a sister-in-law, Rosanne LaVoy, of Bolinas, CA, brother Roderick Castle Jr. and his wife Lynn of Baldwinsville, N.Y., and sister Judy McLean and her husband Tim of Fort Walton Beach, FL. Jane is also survived by many nieces and nephews.
She was pre-deceased by her parents, Henry and Edith Sivers of Venice, FL and Fine View, NY and her birth father Roderick Castle, Sr. of Madison, N.Y. She was also pre-deceased by her birth mother, Reta Amidon, of Baldwinsville, N.Y. and brother Eric of Owego, NY.
Funeral services will be held on July 15, 2024 at noon at St. Alphonsus Church with Rev. James Teti officiating with burial to follow at St. Alphonsus Cemetery. Calling hours will be held prior to funeral from 10a.m. to noon at Frary Funeral Home with an opportunity for individual remembrances.
Contributions in Mrs. LaVoy's memory can be made to the Tupper Lake Volunteer Rescue Squad. Her mother-in-law, Ann LaVoy, was one of its founders and a lifelong member.