Shirley Dechene
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Shirley Ann Dechene, a beloved mother and cherished member of our community. Shirley left us on January 22, 2025, at Adirondack Medical Center in Saranac Lake, leaving behind a legacy of love, kindness and unforgettable memories.
Born on April 28, 1936, in Saranac Lake, Shirley was the daughter of William and Elizabeth (DeLosh) Duffy. Shirley worked as a dedicated waitress for many years. Many will remember her from Roy’s Restaurant where she formed lasting friendships with colleagues and customers alike and later at Boston Gardens where she was known for her warm smile and excellent service. She then went to work at the L.P. Quinn Elementary school in many roles before finally retiring and enjoying a slower pace with her husband, Donnie.
In 1952, Shirley married the late Ray W. Amell, and together they had 10 children, one of whom was born sleeping and always remained a cherished part of her heart.
In 1987, Shirley married Donald Dechene, who became her partner in life for many years. Together they built a home filled with joy, laughter, and treasured memories. Shirley is survived by her husband Donald Dechene; children, Caren (Norman) Cote, Stewart (Laurie) Amell, Bryan Amell, Alene Amell, Mark (Tracey) Amell, and Holly Amell; stepchildren Michael (Diane) Dechene, Julie Dechene and Debi (Gary) Fitzwilliam. Shirley is also survived by several grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces and nephews.
Shirley was predeceased by several loved ones, including her parents William and Elizabeth Duffy, her sister June Stearns, her son Greg Amell, daughter Donna Thomas and daughter Darlene Amell, all of whom she missed deeply. Shirley will be remembered for her deep and abiding love she had for her animals, which was evident to all who knew her. Her home was always filled with the joyful presence of her beloved pets. She found immense happiness in caring for them. Her four-legged companions through the years brought her endless comfort and joy.
Funeral arrangements are in the care of Frary Funeral Home. Calling hours took place on Monday January 27, 2025, from 11am to 1:30pm at Frary Funeral Home in Tupper Lake, where friends and family gathered to celebrate Shirley's life. Funeral services followed at 2p.m. at St. Alphonsus Church in Tupper Lake. In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to the Tri-Lakes Humane Society or the Tupper Lake Rescue Squad.